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What is domestic violence and abuse?

Domestic violence and domestic abuse is:

  • The misuse of physical, emotional, psychological, sexual or financial control by one person over another who is or has been in a relationship. This includes family members.
  • Domestic violence and abuse can include being threatened with abuse.
  • Domestic violence and abuse is usually by men against women but not exclusively.
  • Domestic violence and abuse is a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviours, from one partner to the other in one direction.
  • Domestic violence and abuse includes forced marriage, “honour” crimes and female genital mutilation


Domestic violence and abuse happens in all groups and sections of society. Race, sexuality, disability, age, religion, culture, class or mental health may have an additional impact on the way domestic abuse is experienced, dealt with and responded to.